Muslim prayers insult Jews and Christians

I have constantly asked muslims do they pray for the infidel. I constantly get the answer NO. when i ask the same muslims do they pray for their family they say Yes. We see muslim doctrine saying such things as:
Surah 48:29 "be severe against dibelievers (non-muslims/ polythiests) yet are merciful among themselves" (muslims)/ (my words)/...
Yet Christians are told to love thy enemy bless those who curse you. We dont root ourselves in self righteousness and personal vengance. ...(which seems more like people who trust in G-d?)
Matt.5:44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; 45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? 47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so? 48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
1 John 4:7-8 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and everyone that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
All of Torah is summed up in two classes of laws. Those pertaining to you in your relationship with G-D and those pertaining to you and your relationship with others. If "islam" can't even embrace peace on what authority do they speak of G-d?
1 Cor.13:8 Charity (love) never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away./ Peace (Shalom)to those who embrace it..... _______MUSLIM PRAYERS_______
So, what do Muslims actually pray for? The only supplication in the rak’a is the recitation of Al-Fatihah (Surah 1 of the Quran). This is what they pray for:
Guide us to the straight path, the path of those whom You have favored,

Not of those who have incurred your wrath, nor of those who have gone astray.

The phrase ‘those who have incurred your wrath” comes from Surah 2:61 which says,

Shame and misery were stamped upon [the Israelites] and they incurred the wrath of Allah; because they disbelieved Allah’s signs and slew His prophets unjustly; because they were rebels and transgressors.

The phrase “those who have gone astray” comes from Surah 4:44 which says,
Consider those to whom a portion of the Scriptures was given [i.e., Christians]. They purchase error for themselves and wish to see you go astray.............

The Friday prayer is even more offensive to Jews and Christians, as it requires not only two recitations of Al-Fatihah, but also Surah 62 – The Friday Congregation – and Surah 63 – The Hypocrites. Surah 62 specifically condemns Gentiles as being "in gross error," and Jews are compared with "a donkey laden with books." Surah 63 condemns "hypocrites," those who have renounced their Muslim faith. "They are the enemy. Guard yourself against them."